Who This Is For
People who know something is wrong but do not know what to ask.
Turn a vague concern into a precise reading question.
Working Distinctions
Step 1: name the area
Start with the area: relationship, money, career, grief, relocation, spiritual direction, or family. If you cannot name the area, the first question is why the issue feels so blurred.
Step 2: name the decision
Most useful readings attach to a decision. Stay, leave, wait, write, move, stop, invest, ask, forgive, or protect. If there is no decision, ask for the pattern.
Step 3: remove mind-reading
Do not build the question around claiming certainty over another person's private thoughts. Ask what the pattern shows, what is moving, and what is yours to do.
Before You Send the Request
- I am asking about one situation.
- The question can be answered in a written report.
- The wording does not demand control over another person.
- The answer would help me make a decision.
- The question leaves room for an uncomfortable answer.
Better Questions
- What is the decision?
- What pattern keeps repeating?
- What answer am I afraid of receiving?
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