Who This Is For
People considering separation who need a written report they can reread before acting.
Clarify a possible separation, temporary distance, or ending that needs careful private handling through David's private written method.
Working Distinctions
The private question
Separation questions carry grief before the ending has even happened. The written format gives the question enough room to be handled without performance, interruption, or public explanation.
What I would look for
I would look for whether the relationship needs space or has already completed its work, then test that against timing, ordinary facts, and the decision that is actually in front of you.
How to ask it in writing
Send current living or contact situation, practical constraints, and what separation would change. Keep the request plain. The work is cleaner when the facts are separated from fear, hope, and interpretation.
What I would not claim
Legal, housing, custody, or safety questions require qualified practical support. A useful report gives you a readable pattern and a next step, not a theatrical certainty claim.
Before You Send the Request
- Name the situation in one sentence.
- Send current living or contact situation, practical constraints, and what separation would change.
- Say whether the decision is whether distance would clarify, protect, repair, or confirm an ending.
- Separate facts from interpretation.
- Do not send private material that is not needed for the reading.
Better Questions
- What pattern is operating around a possible separation, temporary distance, or ending that needs careful private handling?
- What decision is mine to make around whether distance would clarify, protect, repair, or confirm an ending?
- What ordinary fact would change the reading of this situation?